The Mundane, and The Holiday...
It has
been a long time since I’ve posted…Mainly because, after baring my soul about
things of great importance to me, it seems a little silly to then write that I
made a wreath by ripping pages out of an old atlas…which I did. And it was a
highlight, though I must admit that pinterest projects are much more about
anticipating than executing.
At least,
in my case.
But
someday I have to write again, and it might as well be now, and I might as well
admit that most of life is pretty mundane…
And that’s
just fine.
After all,
God has us doing things of eternal importance in a world of time with its
beginnings and endings. We are seeking everlasting good in the land of the
temporal – a holy paradox. Faithfulness in the mundane prepares us for
mightiness in the crisis.
So I guess
the mundane is of great importance.
And there
sure is a lot of it.
This week
is Thanksgiving, and that is neither mundane nor silly. I quite like
Thanksgiving – the history, the tradition, the family gathering, the exercise
of gratefulness. It is a wonderful holiday.
This year,
the dinner will be at our house. I think I’ve hosted it about 6 times in the
last 12 years…and I must give thanks to Mary Vander Woude who, in the time I
was on her catering committee, taught me to WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN, and JUST DO
IT – DON’T FRET. I’m not sure what vision I had that caused me to join the
catering committee. It was not that one day I would host a dinner for 100+
people…But, if you are on the catering committee, one day you WILL host a
dinner for 100+ people. With Mary’s notes, I did it, and didn’t die.
So hosting
for 25-35 people is mild compared to that. Still, I have been planning, and
checking notes from previous years, while making lists and purchasing, and now
preparing. Every year it gets easier, and goes better.
It must be
like my Hundred Pie Principle: if you want to make great pies, you just have to
make a hundred bad ones first.
I think we’re
all relieved that it didn’t take 100 bad Thanksgiving Dinners, though the first
few I hosted were blemished by a lot of unnecessary fussing and stressing by
me. It’s hard to be thankful when you are mumble-mumbling about the
mumble-mumble turkey that isn’t done, and OH NOW WHAT WILL WE DO THANKSGIVING IS
RUINED!
Early
preparation is key…as is a reasonable expectation of what makes a good
Thanksgiving.
Today I
diced celery and onions, and am still weeping a little from the experience. The
bread for the stuffing is cubed. The turkeys are thawing. Tomorrow cranberry
sauce will be made. Wednesday, the brussel sprouts trimmed. The dressing will
be assembled. The turkey stuffed and ready for Thursday morning…
In the
meantime, I’ll be trying to figure out the best way to place the tables. It’s
not like we have dining room that seats 25…We are breaking bread all over the
house – but within sight of each other.
It will be
a great day…and I will be exhausted afterward. But it will be worth it because
we are blessed to have the family gather, for laughs, and visiting, and
sharing.
If your
occupation in life is to make home, Thanksgiving is the ultimate expression of
your vocation. I think that is this holiday’s great appeal. I love to make
home, and make people feel at home. And if they feel that way at all during the
day, they won’t remember that the turkey wasn’t done on time.
At least,
I hope not.
Because I
may have about 94 turkeys to go…
Comments
I've hosted my share of Thanksgiving's too, usually with no problems...except for the turkey. One year I dropped it as I was taking it out of the roaster. For the last 5 or so years I've been cooking it in my electric roaster oven. Last year, with the soon to be in-laws, my roaster shut off. I didn't notice until 15 min. before they arrived! We had roast chicken from Safeway and it was still a wonderful meal!!
I hope you have a joyous day, no stress, and a perfectly roasted turkey!
And make the kids do the dishes!